Both tend to use informing language, but ESFPs will have a little more of a drive to immediate tangible action.
ENFPs are more willing to talk about things for a while when talking is moving things along.
ESFp Fi: An esfp gains information about an object's external qualities by relating themselves to those external qualities.
Hypothetical Examples: ENFp: What would it be like internally to be crippled?
For the ESFP there are always new possibilities for action and ESFPs don't want to miss opportunities. Very often the first clue in recognizing the ESFP pattern is pragmatism.
Pragmatic means having autonomy and calling the shots on your own actions. ESFPs lead with Se-Experiencing and Noticing subtle changes. ESFPs notice physical clues to people's feelings, picking up the actual physical energy.
Do you pile a ton of things onto your to-do list but soon find yourself overwhelmed? When a judging process is in the auxiliary or Co-Pilot position in the , it takes conscious effort to engage it.
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Both want an upbeat mood and love to make others happy. Differentiating Improviser™ versus Catalyst™ is key. Often those with ESFP preferences will talk a lot about helping people so they relate to much in the ENFP (Catalyst™) descriptions.
For the ENFP, there are always new potentials to be explored.
Effectiveness can sabotage any efforts for slowing down and can entice Ex FPs into thinking they can do anything in the world with no regard for limitation.
Having very idealistic views about what they can accomplish, they tend to fill their to-do lists with as many ‘want-to-have’ experiences to the point of not being physically capable of finishing them all and frequently becoming workaholics by accident.